1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,440 this is wildlife unschooling with my mom 2 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:19,660 very welcome this is the second part of my journey diary so last part was about how we moved from la 3 00:00:19,660 --> 00:00:27,620 palma to lanzarote and how we spent our time in lanzarote what we did unschooling wise and 4 00:00:27,620 --> 00:00:33,820 yeah all these things so after we spent like two or three weeks in Lanzarote 5 00:00:33,820 --> 00:00:44,140 I booked a ferry to to head to the south of Spain and I really need to say this boat trip was 6 00:00:44,140 --> 00:00:54,120 horrifying I don't have any other word um I mean I think the first ferry trip from La Palma to 7 00:00:54,120 --> 00:01:01,540 Lanzarote. I think we were almost the only ones with pets. I've seen two more dogs, but I didn't 8 00:01:01,540 --> 00:01:07,700 see any dogs in a kennel or anything like that. The second boat, quite the opposite. The stuff 9 00:01:07,700 --> 00:01:17,140 was so rude and I had some incidents, so I'm never allowed back on these ships of this company. 10 00:01:18,180 --> 00:01:24,040 I don't want to, first of all. And secondly, I think that's a nice sign because I really did 11 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:30,920 nothing wrong it was a misunderstanding someone booked something wrong and blamed it on me somehow 12 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:37,400 very very interesting um i really like it when bridges like that burn and if this would be the 13 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:44,360 only company going to the canary island it's hilarious but anyway so i spent i think the 14 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:51,560 first two hours in our room crying my eyes out because i what i cannot stand is being treated 15 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:58,900 with disrespect that is somehow I don't know and if it's unfair I mean if I'm a piece of shit to 16 00:01:58,900 --> 00:02:06,380 someone and someone is a piece of shit back to me that's fine but out of the blue somehow I am 17 00:02:06,380 --> 00:02:12,100 I have the luck of meeting these kind of devil people from time to time you can see it in their 18 00:02:12,100 --> 00:02:19,280 eyes they're something else but not human so I really have the luck meeting one of them yeah and 19 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:25,740 back to that pet thing going on on the boat it was packed with animals it was so loud everyone had 20 00:02:25,740 --> 00:02:36,140 dogs it was crazy and the first time I went on deck to see where the pet area was to walk my dogs 21 00:02:36,140 --> 00:02:46,700 I saw all these really expensive breeds in the kennels and crying and shouting and barking 22 00:02:46,700 --> 00:02:55,160 and it really broke my heart i instantly got back to to our little room and i i cried some more 23 00:02:55,160 --> 00:03:00,620 that was just fucked up i don't know how people can spend so much money on their 24 00:03:00,620 --> 00:03:08,020 dog like thousands and thousands of euros and then lock it up in a kennel with like 30 25 00:03:08,020 --> 00:03:16,880 other candles beside everyone was crying in there it was just horrible so that was good to see 26 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:24,200 to never come back to never have this experience again really disgusting so yeah after 30 hours 27 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:33,220 we landed in we landed that is that the right word i don't even know we i will say landed landed in 28 00:03:33,220 --> 00:03:42,260 in the south of Spain in Cadiz. Horrible place. I hate places like that. So packed and everything. 29 00:03:42,940 --> 00:03:48,880 I cannot stand it. But we survived and we spent quite some time in the south of Spain because I 30 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:56,540 heard how beautiful it is and everything and might be. But what I saw is chemtrails, 31 00:03:56,540 --> 00:04:06,120 disgusting food, no local markets, at least in the area where we stayed, it was really hard to find good food. 32 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:13,060 In the end we found a butcher that also had a garden that would sell us some fruits and vegetables as well. 33 00:04:13,060 --> 00:04:41,179 So that was nice but to be honest so many cars I just not used to it So it really yeah was hard for me to even think all these chemtrails the food the cars and all these people I mean we didn stay in the city or anything like that We were on the Campo and it was still so crowded I felt like it too much for me 34 00:04:43,299 --> 00:04:51,419 yeah really disgusting and on every corner like you had 5g here 5g there so that really 35 00:04:51,419 --> 00:04:57,759 blew my mind how people can live like that um i mean what you gonna do pack your stuff and 36 00:04:57,759 --> 00:05:02,799 go somewhere else where it's the same i was just not used to see all these 37 00:05:02,799 --> 00:05:10,719 crazy towers everywhere and we were as i said on the campo why do you need 38 00:05:10,719 --> 00:05:20,099 a 5g tower on every corner didn't make sense to me and the internet was shit so you can count one 39 00:05:20,099 --> 00:05:31,219 on one together that is easy to do i guess yeah so as we headed to the mainland i thought like now 40 00:05:31,219 --> 00:05:36,339 it's easy for other people to meet us and everything and people have been asking already 41 00:05:36,339 --> 00:05:43,619 if we can meet up over there and I agreed to meeting an old friend of ours and of course I 42 00:05:43,619 --> 00:05:48,139 asked the kids if it's okay blah blah and they were like yeah that's okay let him come over 43 00:05:48,139 --> 00:05:56,679 so a friend came over and I really need to say I think I changed so much over the last years 44 00:05:56,679 --> 00:06:03,719 I couldn't stand him like not one single second and the good part of this is the kids were so 45 00:06:03,719 --> 00:06:10,519 open and honest they were like after i think two hours they were done with his behavior and they 46 00:06:10,519 --> 00:06:19,179 were like no he has to leave so done that we will never go back there was just a nice 47 00:06:19,179 --> 00:06:26,459 let's say situation for us as a little pack to really feel what's good for us 48 00:06:26,459 --> 00:06:32,499 even if this is not a mass murder he is just a normal guy and a friend but the vibration 49 00:06:32,499 --> 00:06:40,919 the vibes weren't aligned so it was easy to let this go and I decided to let a lot of other people 50 00:06:40,919 --> 00:06:50,219 go what a relief to be honest and how proud I was or still am for these kids to be so clear of 51 00:06:50,219 --> 00:06:55,799 what they want in their surrounding and whatnot I would never have the guts to tell my parents 52 00:06:55,799 --> 00:07:06,919 that friends of theirs should fuck off so i really enjoyed that one and um yeah going for a walk in 53 00:07:06,919 --> 00:07:12,719 the little village where we stayed wasn't really nice because everything was full of garbage trash 54 00:07:12,719 --> 00:07:21,059 everywhere like cans and plastic packages and all these things and i really need to stay i needed to 55 00:07:21,059 --> 00:07:28,819 step up my game as a pack leader like being even more calm me even more assertive because our 56 00:07:28,819 --> 00:07:37,459 surrounding was so chaotic and so hectic and the opposite of what we love that made me stronger 57 00:07:37,459 --> 00:07:44,399 for sure and made me way quicker in booking the next stop of our journey yeah so i had to channel 58 00:07:44,399 --> 00:07:51,879 my inner Caesar Milan that was really cool and I really think everything you master you can give 59 00:07:51,879 --> 00:07:59,319 to your kids so I mean I never was a stupid dog owner but I really think I stepped up to the game 60 00:07:59,319 --> 00:08:07,399 because traveling with dogs especially with a huge strong dog is something else than staying at home 61 00:08:07,399 --> 00:08:17,119 being in your usual surrounding yeah so what we really started to feel then was missing our 62 00:08:17,119 --> 00:08:22,959 friends so we started to video call them and things like that like our best friends from 63 00:08:22,959 --> 00:08:41,978 La Palma and I believe that they will I don know follow us because I cannot imagine myself never seeing them again or going there for vacation and seeing them like that or anything like this 64 00:08:42,058 --> 00:08:45,278 So I really believe that we will live together one day again. 65 00:08:47,798 --> 00:08:53,838 I really think that we can co-create this, especially when we are all conscious about that. 66 00:08:54,178 --> 00:08:58,058 So we are working on this actively, the kids, me and the other families. 67 00:08:58,058 --> 00:08:59,998 So let's see how this is working out. 68 00:09:01,598 --> 00:09:10,378 I really enjoyed that process of creating the awareness of that we miss them so much that we want to live with them again. 69 00:09:10,538 --> 00:09:14,418 And I'm not a person to live with other people. 70 00:09:14,418 --> 00:09:16,258 I don't enjoy that at all. 71 00:09:16,478 --> 00:09:19,058 But these people are just incredibly awesome. 72 00:09:19,858 --> 00:09:22,458 And the kids as well. 73 00:09:22,598 --> 00:09:24,138 So we miss them so much. 74 00:09:24,138 --> 00:09:30,738 and now we're in the process of co-creating this life where we are back together somehow 75 00:09:30,738 --> 00:09:38,238 nearer closer and that we can yeah co-create the next steps of life because what i really enjoy 76 00:09:38,238 --> 00:09:44,958 about these guys is that they they are not standing still they are fully aware of what 77 00:09:44,958 --> 00:09:49,718 they are doing what they are manifesting in their life and these kind of things so that's pretty 78 00:09:49,718 --> 00:09:59,098 pretty cool um yeah what did we do in in the south of spain regarding unschooling nothing really 79 00:09:59,098 --> 00:10:05,458 we spent a lot of time in the pool um we spent a lot of time talking about 5g towers 80 00:10:05,458 --> 00:10:14,958 um of course we did here and there some meditation um but to be honest i was so unhappy that it was 81 00:10:14,958 --> 00:10:19,578 quite hard for me to really meditate. I know this is the time where you should meditate, 82 00:10:20,218 --> 00:10:27,518 but I feel like, no, I just want to be unhappy for some time now. So we've all been quite unhappy 83 00:10:27,518 --> 00:10:36,758 over there. And we really did not do a lot. We didn't go anywhere fancy. We didn't go out to eat 84 00:10:36,758 --> 00:10:38,078 or anything like that. 85 00:10:38,178 --> 00:10:43,038 We spent a lot of time home, cooking, pool time, 86 00:10:43,638 --> 00:10:47,618 doing some multidimensional Bitcoiner sessions 87 00:10:47,618 --> 00:10:53,658 and exploring other realms of possibilities 88 00:10:53,658 --> 00:10:58,118 and consciousness-wise, all of these things. 89 00:10:58,118 --> 00:11:01,058 And I really think this time was pretty important 90 00:11:01,058 --> 00:11:04,478 to slow down, to digest that we are not 91 00:11:04,478 --> 00:11:05,798 on the Canary Islands anymore 92 00:11:05,798 --> 00:11:09,738 because being on Lanzarote feels like you can go home anytime. 93 00:11:10,898 --> 00:11:14,378 Of course, we still can go home, but it's not home anymore. 94 00:11:15,098 --> 00:11:16,198 And this happens there. 95 00:11:16,418 --> 00:11:18,818 This happened there, this process of letting go 96 00:11:18,818 --> 00:11:23,998 and separating your feeling of feeling home on the Canary Islands 97 00:11:23,998 --> 00:11:27,778 to feeling home where the car is, back to the roots, 98 00:11:28,418 --> 00:11:32,078 and really deep diving into the feeling of where do you want to go, 99 00:11:32,478 --> 00:11:33,938 like what feels right. 100 00:11:33,938 --> 00:11:37,678 because my goal was to go to leave Spain for good 101 00:11:37,678 --> 00:11:40,318 because you cannot just leave Spain 102 00:11:40,318 --> 00:11:43,058 and tell them to go fuck yourself. 103 00:11:44,018 --> 00:11:45,798 This is quite different in Germany 104 00:11:45,798 --> 00:11:47,518 and I wasn't aware of that 105 00:11:47,518 --> 00:11:51,558 when I registered in the Canary Islands. 106 00:11:53,198 --> 00:11:55,198 In Germany, you can just leave 107 00:11:55,198 --> 00:11:57,398 and tell them you're leaving the country 108 00:11:57,398 --> 00:11:59,238 and then you're out of the tech system, 109 00:11:59,338 --> 00:12:00,538 you're out of the school system, 110 00:12:00,598 --> 00:12:02,158 no questions asked if you're lucky. 111 00:12:02,158 --> 00:12:08,378 if they ask you don't have to answer that is different in spain you have to provide you have 112 00:12:08,378 --> 00:12:16,978 to provide a new tax um yeah where you're paying your taxes then where you're going to school all 113 00:12:16,978 --> 00:12:22,578 these things you have to provide to get out of that system so my idea was as we were sitting in 114 00:12:22,578 --> 00:12:29,258 the south of spain okay where where do i want to go where do i have chances of having like a couple 115 00:12:29,258 --> 00:12:36,378 of peaceful months to figure out where I really want to go because staying in Europe is not an 116 00:12:36,378 --> 00:12:42,978 option for me to be honest maybe this will change over the next weeks or months as we're settling in 117 00:12:42,978 --> 00:13:04,396 in the in Europe here back on the mainland but my feeling is this is going south quite quickly I not happy with the migration crisis I not happy with basically anything over there And we talked a lot I mean the kids and me about how life 118 00:13:04,396 --> 00:13:11,316 should be, what they want their lives to look like. And my kid, he spent quite some time in 119 00:13:11,316 --> 00:13:17,456 the jungle when he was quite young and he remembers that pretty well. So he's always 120 00:13:17,456 --> 00:13:24,556 back to this let's go back to the jungle and of course i would book a flight in a heartbeat 121 00:13:24,556 --> 00:13:31,636 but i don't want my pets to be vaccinated chipped and put in a kennel and stuffed in the 122 00:13:31,636 --> 00:13:37,716 back of an airplane to suffocate or anything people might call me crazy for that 123 00:13:37,716 --> 00:13:44,496 but i don't want to do it to me why should i do it to my dog and yeah it's just a dog or it's just 124 00:13:44,496 --> 00:13:51,836 a cat and what makes so much would make things so much easier but over the last couple of months 125 00:13:51,836 --> 00:13:59,376 where when I was researching where to go how to go there and these things I met so many sailing 126 00:13:59,376 --> 00:14:05,436 families that live on their boat with their dogs their cats and they go around the world basically 127 00:14:05,436 --> 00:14:12,876 so this opened up my mind too I don't have to fly anywhere there are other options and if this is 128 00:14:12,876 --> 00:14:21,976 the last option if the last thing the last straw of leaving europe is really flying then okay maybe 129 00:14:21,976 --> 00:14:28,136 it will change my mind but as as long as i have a car and as long as being on a boat sailing and 130 00:14:28,136 --> 00:14:34,576 all these things are fun to me i i wouldn't even think about booking a flight somewhere yeah it 131 00:14:34,576 --> 00:14:41,556 would be easy to just book a flight to the jungle but yeah it doesn't make sense so if anyone has 132 00:14:41,556 --> 00:14:50,896 the same thoughts or is already far more down the road in this process please let me know 133 00:14:50,896 --> 00:14:58,976 maybe come on my show or just text me comment because i really met a lot of families that have 134 00:14:58,976 --> 00:15:10,076 the same exact issues not only regarding pets but really like dislocating relocating dislocating 135 00:15:10,076 --> 00:15:19,156 is discussing relocating their families to keep their kids safe um and i didn't really hear about 136 00:15:19,156 --> 00:15:26,156 a lot of easy solutions let's say it like that i heard a lot about failed solutions so far 137 00:15:26,156 --> 00:15:34,916 and i really think we should be way more connected all of us even if it's just about you and your pet 138 00:15:34,916 --> 00:15:40,176 like you and your cat and you don't have any kids and you still have the same issues you're still 139 00:15:40,176 --> 00:15:45,516 searching for the same lifestyle maybe so reach out to me and talk to me about that 140 00:15:45,516 --> 00:15:55,416 yeah and i think this is it for this episode let's see what comes up next i will keep you 141 00:15:55,416 --> 00:16:06,556 updated on our travel adventures and again thanks a lot to everyone who's donating to keep this 142 00:16:06,556 --> 00:16:12,636 project alive and thanks to everyone who's reaching out commenting and texting me I always love to 143 00:16:12,636 --> 00:16:18,496 hear your feedback your stories or even if you say hi that means a lot to me because then I don't feel 144 00:16:18,496 --> 00:16:23,656 like I'm doing this alone I mean I see that you people click on these episodes and listen to them 145 00:16:23,656 --> 00:16:30,776 but still i don't see you i don't know you and sometimes i feel a little bit weirded out by this 146 00:16:30,776 --> 00:16:39,336 so i would like to be more connected to all of you guys if you're nice if not please stay away 147 00:16:39,336 --> 00:16:50,376 so that's it from from this episode of traveling have a great day everyone and hopefully speak to 148 00:16:50,376 --> 00:16:50,736 you soon 149 00:16:53,656 --> 00:17:13,036 Thank you.